How about beginning by asking if he would feel safe being asked away by a lady? Then if he responds definitely, ask then.
Also, rather than welcoming him to surf/swim/movie, what about coffee products and a stroll in a park? Or simply fulfilling for coffee at a coffeehouse. It will be reduced force. But in situation it goes perfectly, you will need to have concept for something different the both of you could get do following the coffee. 继续阅读